tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5450796190057747932024-03-12T18:18:59.506-07:00LDS Adoption ConnectionA Place To Share Hope, Love & MiraclesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger212125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-73556663914169234902014-05-13T13:56:00.002-07:002014-05-13T13:56:19.973-07:00Open Adoption: Trend?Adoption is a practice that has been used for thousands of years to find families for parent-less children and children for child-less couples. Evidence shows that the ancient Greeks, Romans, Babylonians, and even the Egyptians all had different systems of adoption used in their cultures.<br />
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While practiced long before formally and legally recognized, the United States began to recognize the practice of adoption around the 1850's. In fact, Massachusetts was the first state in the United States to pass a law, the <a href="http://darkwing.uoregon.edu/~adoption/archive/MassACA.htm" target="_blank">Massachusetts Adoption of Children Act of 1851</a>, stating that adoption was a social and legal operation based on the welfare of a child rather than adult and human interest and first used the judiciary system to define, in complete subjectivity rather than uniform, objectively measured and defined limits, "fit and proper" adoptions.<br />
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From there, adoption slowly evolved. The field of social work was created as well as many organizations like the U.S. Children's Bureau, Child Welfare League of America, and more states began to acknowledge and pass laws related to adoption. In 1919, the first empirical research study was conducted to study adoption; How many adoptions were occurring, of whom and by whom. Adoption agencies, both public and private, were created. The Child Welfare League of America initiated a minimum set of standards for those seeking to adopt a child in response to baby farming and growing concerns about the families children were being placed into in 1937. Over the 1930's, 1940's, and 1950's, adoption agencies began sealing adoption records. Attitudes began shifting toward the closed adoption thinking (Read about the rationale here, under "Record Closure:" http://www.researchetcinc.com/historyofadoption.html)<br />
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The trend of closure (record closure, identifying information closure, etc.) continued during the 1960's and 1970's. Slowly, still, ever so slowly, adoption trends began changing along with cultural and social changes. By the 1970's, adoptees began to speak out more emphatically than before, blended families began to be recognized as "normalized," birth parents and adoptive parents were allowed to exchange non-identifying information, birth parents were able to choose the adoptive family with whom to place their child, and by the 1990's and early 2000's, social workers began encouraging open adoptions. People began researching and studying the effects of open vs. closed adoptions. Princeton published<a href="https://www.princeton.edu/futureofchildren/publications/docs/03_01_09.PDF" target="_blank"> this article in 1993</a>, weighing the risks vs. benefits of open adoption. Since then, several more organizations have studied open adoptions. Here are a few for you to consider:<br />
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<li><a href="http://www.creatingafamily.org/adoption/research/research-on-openness-in-adoption.html" target="_blank">Minnesota/Texas Adoption Research Project</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.cradle.org/Documents/Article-20on-20Open-20Adoption.pdf" target="_blank">Open Adoption: Is It Working?</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.adoptionhelp.org/open-adoption/research" target="_blank">California Long-Range Adoption Study</a> (Summarized by IAC)</li>
<li><a href="http://ssw.unc.edu/rti/presentation/currentadoption/tsld001.htm" target="_blank">Research on Adoption and PASS</a></li>
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These studies and information are barely the tip of the iceberg. Because adoptions were closed and are rather recently trending toward complete and various stages of openness, researchers are still studying and postulating hypothesis and theories whether or not it truly is better to be open vs. closed. They're studying the effect of adoption on children throughout the adoptees entire life. Some see attachment theory as a trend similar to Freudian ideals. Some see openness in adoption as beneficial. </div>
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I can read millions upon millions of studies about the history of adoption, current trends in adoption and adoptive parenting methods, adoptive cost analysis summaries of benefits vs. risks for thousands upon thousands of different scenarios. Some have a legitimate foundation, some, I feel are hair-brained idiocy. What I know to be true, as an adoptive parent with one open adoptive relationship and one closed relationship with biological families is this: Our open adoption is healthier for our family. Our family struggles with the secrecy and questions left surrounding the closed adoption. Right now, one of our children struggles with adoption related issues and has extreme and often severe behaviors that may or may not be directly related to adoption. Not all those who were once adopted have difficulty processing or accepting adoption. Because of our unique, yet not at all uncommon difficulties, I feel adoptive families are NOT given enough pre-adoption education on the POSSIBLE difficulties they might encounter throughout their adoptive child's life. When those issues DO arise, IF they are going to happen, adoptive families need to be given respect, love, and support instead of ridiculed, called bad parents, and made into media sensations to discourage adoption or propagate negative stereotypes and stigmas surrounding adoption. Adoption has the ability to take children out of some really icky situations and places and place them in normal, human families that will do their best to care for them. </div>
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Open adoption works for us. I don't care if people merely consider it a trend and liken it to Farberizing trends, Freudian trends, Erickson trends, or any of the other child development, child psychological, or adoptive and adaptive trends. In 30 years, perhaps somebody will research our lives and relationships in correlation to adoption and the impact the current adoption trends and culture have had on my children throughout their lifetime. What will they find? I don't know. I truly worry about my son and can see negative impacts in his life because of adoption. I also know that he is an amazing little boy that will do marvelous things, regardless of a one-time event that took place 7 months after he was born. I do know that I am a better person for being accepted by non-genetically related family members. Because of my parent's open, honest, loving relationship with what some consider "step-family," but was just considered "family" in our home, I have a model and example of how to function with non-biologically related family. I have an emotionally mature, functional, and loving relationship with my daughter's biological family. I cringe when I hear "closed adoption," and my heart hurts because of our experience with it. I support open adoption. It may not be for everybody; it isn't for my son's first mother. But, open adoption is for me. It is for my husband. It is for our daughter and her birthmother....her WHOLE birth family. We pray it will be for any other children we bring into our home through adoption and will welcome their biological families into our family with open arms. We don't care if open adoption is a trend, to us, open adoption is love. So, in my mind, the only question about open vs. closed adoption is right for you and your family?</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-16285627208330810272014-04-06T14:35:00.000-07:002014-04-06T14:35:57.376-07:00Hope<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Waiting during the adoption process is excruciating, isn't it? Even actively seeking with faith and hope is often excruciatingly painful. Our family has felt this lately. For some reason, our two adoption miracles have latched onto the thought that they need more siblings. They ask frequently and talk constantly about whether or not we will be adopting more siblings for them. If only it were as simple as it seems in their minds, right? Then, they look at me with their chubby cheeks and cherubic eyes and I feel torn. Shouldn't I simply be grateful to have these two miracles instead of longing for one more? Especially when so many are still waiting and longing for their first child? Three is my "magic number;" my husband has always longed for four children.<br />
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As we've experienced these family-growing pains, we've knelt in prayer and poured our hearts out to our Savior. We felt our prayers were heard and answered, not because we've already been able to adopt twice, but because our hearts felt peace. We were reminded of that peace and loved this promise given by President Boyd K. Packer during General Conference today. We pray it brings peace and hope in your adoption journey also!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-90492912857595268352014-04-05T10:53:00.003-07:002014-04-05T10:54:38.658-07:00<div style="text-align: center;">
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I met my husband, JJ, in 2002 and we were married in 2003. Exactly 4 month after we were married, we began trying to conceive a child. We were living in Rexburg, Idaho, attending BYU-Idaho at that time. Everyone around us was getting married and having children, we were of similar mind and couldn't wait to be parents! 11 years later, we are grateful to have our 2 children, who came to our family through adoption. We have one closed adoptive relationship and one VERY open adoptive relationship with our children's family. </div>
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I can't begin to count the number of times we wondered if we'd be given the sacred calling of being parents of Heavenly Father's children. Then, we wondered if there would be only one, or two. More often than I can count, our adoption dreams seemed difficult, frustrating, hopeless, and endless. However, as I listen to General Conference today, I decided my first posted needed to share hope and strength.</div>
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Choosing adoption to build ones family requires endless courage, strength, and will undoubtedly come with seemingly endless challenges. Each of our adoption dreams and experiences will be different. Our family has experienced failed adoptive matches, three pregnancy losses, inquired about hundreds of waiting children, have been presented to final adoption selection committees (foster adoption process and waiting child process) about a dozen times, been foster parents, dealt with emotional and financial adoption scammers, have successfully adopted twice. Adopting is quickly becoming more difficult financially and due to increasingly difficult laws, but what I know more than anything else is this: When it is right and supposed to happen, things will work out. I look forward to sharing more of our experiences with everyone!</div>
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<b><span style="font-size: x-large;">So, to help me get to know everyone, please share where you are in your adoption journey!</span></b></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-52484903965928930312013-10-09T22:18:00.000-07:002013-10-09T22:18:04.880-07:00Looking for help to run this blog!It has been a while since Elise or I have posted and I feel it is fair to say both of us are so busy currently...I feel we need to ask for help...There are many of you that love this blog...I love this blog but I just don't have the time to write for it right now at all barely. <br />
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Would like to help run the blog? I know many of you are amazing and able and would add some really great flare to it! Please reach out thru the facebook page msg if you are interested so I can add you on to the blog! Thanks again ahead!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-53260156036782295242013-06-21T23:18:00.000-07:002013-06-21T23:18:11.297-07:00Sixteen and a Mom...All I know is I just watched this and I am still teary...ALL of you need to watch this.... birth mom's and women considering placing for Adoption should too. My husband ended up seeing it on TV about a month ago and kept saying "Deanna you have got to find this movie and watch it" I should have watched it sooner but I can see now why it touched him so dearly since Audri had just been placed with us. I am so thankful for the selfless sacrifice that Audri's birthmother made for her and us...there are no words....<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-37195242364742597112013-05-02T15:22:00.000-07:002013-05-02T15:22:09.516-07:00Good News! I am so excited to announce some adoption miracles! Starting with the most recent:<br />
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James and Deanna have welcomed a beautiful baby girl into their home on Wednesday with about two days notice! Can't wait to hear more details from them. Check out their blog for their announcement post! <a href="http://alittlefamilyblessing.blogspot.com/2013/05/surprise.html">http://alittlefamilyblessing.blogspot.com/2013/05/surprise.html</a><br />
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Que and Brittany experienced quite the whirlwind in their home in April. They are now a family of four with the addition of a sweet little girl!!!!! Woohoo! Congratulations!!<br />
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Love sharing goods news with you all. I'm sure Deanna will check in when she can, but we can all understand she has her arms full of snuggly newborn goodness so she will be busy for awhile! <br />
Soak it up girl! :) -Elise <br />
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Brian and Amanda have welcomed their little girl home!!! We are so happy for you both...and yes she is such a cutie! Ella Jean was born on March 14th! Please visit their blog to see just how cute she is and to read their placement story!!!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-48826443964981198272013-03-22T16:55:00.000-07:002013-03-22T17:01:46.144-07:00Adoption Pass-a-long Facebook Photos!So as many of you know last weekend I did an Adoption Media Blitz for James and I to find a potential Birthmother!. All I can say is HUGE success as far as getting the word out and going beyond Viral! I even had a News station locally call me today because a producer in the station saw my page and they want to maybe feature us somehow about our adoption page! Cuh-RAzy!! (I have to admit I got the idea to do this blitz so to say from my friend <a href="http://paulandamyadopt.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Amy's Blog</a>...she posted about it some time back and I knew I had to do this...<br />
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Many of you need to read that post on <a href="http://alittlefamilyblessing.blogspot.com/2013/03/adoption-media-blitz-this-weekend.html" target="_blank">my personal blog</a> so that it can help you in your quest to find your baby! I know I have been putting somethings in my posts lately that are kinda different but you guys need to be thinking different! One of the things I did in addition to my post on my blog was to share about it on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith" target="_blank">my Adoption Facebook Page</a>! This was a key component! I was also interactive with my Facebook audience and they did a stellar job sharing and liking the posts so that all things would go viral and share thru their feeds! One of the best ways was with these photo's. I call them Adoption Pass-a-long photos! Think about it we all have these cards and yes they are totally great but if you really want people to see your card make a photo version and post it on FACEBOOK! These have gotten THOUSANDS of views on my Adoption Facebook Page. How did I make them? www.picmokey.com of course!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-15631848509941393512013-03-16T08:56:00.000-07:002013-03-16T08:56:32.317-07:00FYIJust wanted to give you all a heads up that if you received a lame email from me this morning it obviously was not me...someone in "Turkey" had hacked the LDS Adoption Connection email...We have fixed it and taken care of the issue but a red flag would be it saying my name as the sender of the email so don't open it....sorry:(Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-75713378884954470172013-03-14T00:00:00.000-07:002013-03-14T00:00:02.757-07:00The Drop Box...I learned about this documentary from an article about the young man that produced this documentary and knew that others needed to see this...It is inspiring and so moving to say the least...You will see why you will also want to see this when it comes out fully...<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Well, I was googling and looking for a way to fix <a href="http://alittlefamilyblessing.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">my personal blog</a> header, my blog has had some technical challenges/glitches (hence why it isn't doesn't have a cute blog background) and I found this <a href="http://polished-prisms.blogspot.com/2012/07/how-to-make-blogger-header-image.html" target="_blank">blog post</a> on this girls blog that helped me know how to use this site. I love google! (well for this that is..lol)</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><i>btw- I put it on my personal page and my adoption Facebook page...hence why I have the blog address on the header...the one on the actual blog does not have it. Remember, you want as many people as possible to know you have an ADOPTION BLOG and even if someone isn't friends with you on Facebook and you comment on a post they can go to your page and still see your header and that YOU WANT TO ADOPT! What if they know someone looking to place! Every exposure helps!!!</i></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-62825431979202516352013-03-11T12:00:00.000-07:002013-03-11T23:33:03.282-07:00Feature Post: Daniel and Christy<span style="font-family: "Big Caslon";"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i>One of my favorite parts of
administrating this blog is getting to feature hopeful adoptive couples. If you
would like to have your family featured and you are currently certified to
adopt, contact me at ldsadoptionconnection at yahoo dot com. Thanks! -Elise
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<span style="font-family: "Big Caslon";">There
were fireworks the day Daniel and I met. Literally. It was the 4<sup>th</sup>
of July and we were out with a group of friends. That was the first time I
recognized Daniel’s potential as a father. We were sitting on a blanket as we
were waiting for the fireworks to start. A little boy was nearby blowing
bubbles and Daniel was playing along, catching them and making that little boy
smile and laugh. I’m not ashamed to admit that it was the moment I started to
fall for him.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Big Caslon";">We’ve
been married for nine years and we’ve been hoping for a child for almost that
whole time. We’d discussed adoption when we were engaged and we both felt like
it was an option for us. It’s such a blessing that we’ve been able to work toward
this dream together and we’re excited that someday we might be chosen to become
parents. We’re hoping to have an open adoption so our child can know and love
their first family. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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with running. Daniel could spend days reading. We are both a little geeky since
Daniel’s love of Star Wars and Star Trek is contagious. We have a dog named
Doozer who absolutely adores little kids and keeps us laughing. We have a great
life and we are excited to have the chance to be parents through the miracle of
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<span style="font-family: "Big Caslon";">We
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question on our Q&A Tuesday blog posts!<o:p></o:p></span>Josh & Elisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17842220138103897654noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-4040456508071372782013-03-10T14:48:00.000-07:002013-03-10T20:44:19.380-07:00That we may "Not...Shrink"...James and I had a friend text us last night in the middle of the night about this talk and that it made him think of us...I think the friend probably thought James had his phone muted since it was around midnight when we got the text which means our friend was watching at 1 am Idaho time! lol <br />
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Anyways, back to my point...I watched this while I got ready for church this morning and boy oh boy was this GOOD! I am going to watch it again today so I can gain some better understanding of the talk. I don't know about you but Elder Bednar has such a way of explaining things that has helped me in the past so much. <br />
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As I watched, it made me think I needed to post it here on the blog...I know I am not alone in the struggle of infertility or to grow our family...I know many of you will see what I saw when you listen to what he shared...SO so Profound. I am grateful for amazing friends that share the love of the Gospel with us...no mater what the hour hay be...We are truly blessed. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-4653667483398009912013-03-09T17:16:00.001-07:002013-03-10T16:48:13.829-07:00ADOPTION BLOGS!!!So after some thought and many questions coming at me about blogs I have decided to write a post about starting or updating your Adoption blog!<br />
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Some of you may be thinking where do I start... this is hard? or I already have one now I need an adoption one? or You mean I have to put my feelings or thoughts or info out there on the net? Or I am not good at this kind of stuff! or Everyone else is soooo much better than me at that kind of stuff or theirs looks way better than mine... Well, I will tell you these are all very valid questions or thoughts and some of them may be totally true and some well may be all in your head!<br />
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I will say this as I have before in the <a href="http://ldsadoptioncouples.blogspot.com/2012/12/returning-blog-poster-adoption-and.html" target="_blank">Social Media post</a> I wrote that YOU need to have a blog! No, its obviously not required...lol...and yes your birthmother may come to you in a totally different way but it is the best way to be able to share your thoughts, feelings and who you are with others that YOU ARE WANTING TO ADOPT with exception of Facebook but blog posts can be highly integrated into Facebook. And if you are not on Facebook at this point you need to read the social media post....<br />
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For starters I would say user <a href="http://blogger.com/">blogger.com</a> (its linked to gmail). Wordpress is way harder...well not as user friendly if you don't have a clue what you are doing. When I started <a href="http://alittlefamilyblessing.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">my blog </a> I had never done anything like it... Blogger is really user friendly and even has simple templates you can use to get started and all you have to do it pick which one.<br />
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<i>**I know many of you already have one of these but everyone starts somewhere!**</i><br />
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Well for starters, I want you to look at the hoping to adopt blogs that are linked on LDS Adoption Connection and I really want you to look at them pretending you are an expectant mother looking to place the child you are carrying...Can you tell they even want to adopt? Can you find info about them that tells you who they are? Did they write a letter to you? Did you feel like you already know them without meeting them? Do they feel feel like old friends or do they seem stiff and uptight...or do you feel like they are your family? Do they say they want an open adoption and do they feel like they want one? There is a difference? Do they allow you to feel what they are going through? Do they inspire you? Do they make you want to know them more and that you can't wait to read their next post? Do they have Facebook? Can you learn more about them that way? Was it easy to navigate their blog? Was it boring? Was it ugly or attractive?<br />
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These are things you MUST think about when you create your blog! These blogs are to represent you yes, but they are for someone else to read!!! Would you want to read your blog? Seriously! You need to ask yourself that question... I know I am not a candy coater and with this kind of stuff no one wants one of those...<br />
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When I decided to create a blog I CREEPED everyone else's and looked for all the parts I liked and definitely notated the ones I didn't like!<br />
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You must give a birthmother a way to reach you on your blog...Create an email just for your adoption and put that on everything (Facebook, parent profiles, and your blog). It would be the worst to have a birth mother want you and you never gave her a way to reach you...seriously its a duh! lol<br />
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Some of you may not like what I say next but oh well! You really need to have a blog that you actually write on and update!!! Some of you out there have blogs that you call "adoption blogs" and all they are is another version of a parent profile or it's about love. Although many of these blogs are super cute they are somewhat stale...yes stale (don't be offended just hear me out)...they are stale because anyone can create that and they don't tell a potential birthmother that you are STILL in fact wanting to adopt. <br />
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They say nothing about what is happening in your life, nothing about if you did indeed get placed with, nothing about if you had a failed placement and how it felt, and it usually never says if you are indeed matched? <br />
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They say nothing...And worst yet is that when friends of people put them in their blog lists on their blogs they are at the bottom since they never are updated..thus a birthmother never clicks on them! No one really clicks on these since they are at the bottom...They click on updated blogs...seriously again think as if you are them:)<br />
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On blogger you can allow in the footer for your posts to be shared on Facebook...you want to add this function ASAP! You have no idea how many times I wanted to share someones specific post and they didn't give this option...uhg! I love to share peoples stories so you want this on there...<br />
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This is also how YOU SHOULD share your newest posts on to your <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith" target="_blank">Facebook adoption page!</a> From your adoption Facebook page "THEN" you share it to your Personal facebook page because then your post will show where it was shared from (your adoption Facebook page) and people go to your page and "like" it and then their "like" shows in the Facebook newsfeed of ALL the people that person knows! cool huh!<br />
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You need to get these...create an adoption page if you haven't see <a href="http://ldsadoptioncouples.blogspot.com/2012/12/returning-blog-poster-adoption-and.html" target="_blank">social media post</a>....and post these on your blogs...many people blog and they are happy to post a blog button on their blog for you. You may say "Deanna how do I do that?" Well, I just googled it that is how I learned I had no clue! But I found you this <a href="http://betweennapsontheporch.net/how-to-make-a-blog-button-with-grab-box-code-underneath-for-your-sidebar/" target="_blank">link</a> and it will walk you thru it:) I also hunted on others blogs and copied their html and added my links and picts. When you pick a picture for this you will want to make sure your picture shows your faces...make sure you are thinking "will someone want to click on my button?" Is it boring or attractive! Does it say I want to adopt? Hint: I used a picture of my wanting to adopt pass a long cards. I worked great!<br />
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These need to be on your blog for others to "like" your Facebook page and be aware that you have one and for them to help you...they could be big time bloggers and have lots of traffic come to their blogs and because you have a button and they "know" your story they post your button on their blog! Some of my coolest online friends came about because we were creeping each other's blogs and felt like we knew each other already!<br />
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As you may have read in the previous post, my dear friend and fellow blog contributor Deanna is currently facing a heartbreaking trial. I am asking all those within the adoption world to join us in fasting tomorrow. We will be fasting with these thoughts specifically in our hearts, minds and prayers: for the best thing to happen for baby Emerson, that his birthmom Jules will receive clarity in her decisions, that God's glory can be shown through miracles, that Jules family will be in tune with Heavenly Father's will and will have understanding and clarity as well. <br />
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I know this is an unusual place to request fasting but I firmly believe in strength in numbers and faith. The Lord is able to do anything if it his will, I have seen it in my own family with our adoption journey. Our hearts have to be open and our minds willing to bend to his promptings and I sincerely hope that comfort, healing and love will be abounding in the resolution of this trial for the Little Family. I know that the Lord has a divine plan for all of this. <br />
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I will keep you all posted as Deanna chooses to share. Love to Jules, her family, Emerson and the Little Family at this time. <br />
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-Elise Josh & Elisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17842220138103897654noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-80758865997019846402013-02-07T18:18:00.003-07:002013-03-06T08:15:57.371-07:00We need your prayers and faith! Shared with the permission of the Little Family:<br />
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few hours and wonder why and can only ask for Heavenly Father to help me
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through as well as our extended family. PLEASE PLEASE Pray for us...Pray for
Emerson....we miss him so dearly already...Jules revoked her relinquishment
yesterday afternoon after 4 weeks and LDS Family Services came for Emerson and
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love Emerson so much and I have never felt pain like this ever in my life...I
feel like I have been forced to give my child away, I never made any choices to
create this feeling and we did everything right...the only feeling that I can
compare to this would be the death of a child...I am a mess...James and I have
gone through so much in our quest to grow our family and are at a loss...Abbe is
unbelievably heartbroken...Her little brother was taken away, and I have never
heard her cry like she has...why would someone do this...please Heavenly Father
help me to feel peace and comfort even if I can not understand ones
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Josh & Elisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17842220138103897654noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-33773035166460929512013-01-14T22:37:00.001-07:002013-03-06T08:17:27.627-07:00What's Mine Is Yours..You guys, I have spent my entire day listening to <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhMfQVBpoSY" target="_blank">this </a>song over and over. I pulled up the R House blog this morning to see a new post detailing how Lindsey (Mrs. R) had a special tie to this song by Katherine Nelson. She shared the touching story of how her and her son's birthmom sat together listening to a live performance of this song and then got to meet Katherine and tell her about their story. <br />
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Today Katherine Nelson released a video to go along with her song "What's Mine Is Yours". I clicked on the link that Lindsey had included and within moments tears were rolling down my cheeks. The emotion Katherine conveys, the images of the mother who loses her sweet baby and of the courageous birthmom placing her baby in the arms of another....ah, it just rocked me to my very core, but in a GOOD way.<br />
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I have literally been pulling up youtube and playing the song for anyone who will listen. It is so beautiful and the message is so tender to me, being someone who has experienced both a miscarriage and the miracle of a birthmom placing their most precious gift in my arms. <br />
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Please support Katherine by going onto her <a href="http://www.katherinenelson.com/" target="_blank">website</a> or Amazon and purchasing this <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008SALZ76/ref=dm_dp_trk5" target="_blank">song</a>. Share it with your family members and friends. She has been blessed with an amazing talent and I am so grateful that she used it to write this song. May it touch your heart as it has touched mine today. <br />
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-Elise Josh & Elisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17842220138103897654noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-545079619005774793.post-18340730982265903232013-01-11T01:33:00.000-07:002013-01-11T01:33:06.592-07:00Happy New Year! Hi everyone! I made some changes to the couples hoping to adopt list. I go through them pretty regularly and read them. Please keep your adoption blogs updated! Having new posts shows expectant parents that you are still hoping to adopt and keeps you at the top of our list :) If you have not posted something new in over six months, I will be removing you from our list next week as I am no longer sure whether you are still pursuing adoption and want to have updated lists for prospective birthparents to look through. Email to be added back if you update posts after I have edited the list :) <br />
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On another note, a reader wrote in and asked me if I had any suggestions for birthfather gifts. Since we have never had any communication with our son's birthfather (yet, I'm hoping things will open up in the future), I didn't really have any ideas for her. Can you share some things you have done? I know that so often adoptive couples plan nice things for the birthmom when they meet or for placement. It would be great for all of us to hear suggestions on gifts for birthdads. Thanks! <br />
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I took Jon and Bridget off our list because they are expecting in May through IVF! So exciting. Also in other goods news, Que and Brittany have been matched as well as James and Deanna. Looking forward to hearing more about their adoption journeys in the coming months! One thing I wanted to point out about these two couples who have matched is that they are very active with social media. Facebook and blogs can be powerful tools in communicating new things going on with your family and your desire to adopt. These tools are also great for advocating for adoption and continuing openness with your child's birthparents following placement. Use technology to your benefit, it can work miracles! <br />
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<em><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #0b5394;">Hey everyone, guess what? Deanna who used to be the blog administrator, is getting recertified to adopt. Her and her husband James are an amazing couple and I am really excited to watch their miracle unfold as they search and wait for the baby they have been hoping for to join their family. She has graciously offered to help me out with some posts each week and I am looking forward to getting to read them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Deanna! -Elise </span></em></div>
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Since we have been through this process before of getting certified to adopt but took a breather and now we are back on the wagon so to say I thought I would talk about the importance of getting yourself out there and helping a birth-mother find you!!! There are many ways to give yourself exposure but by far the FASTEST way for ALL of your friends and networks to know you want to adopt is thru social media and FACEBOOK!!! <br />
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You need to be "thinking" who birth-mothers most likely will be and how will she see glimpses of us and know we are wanting to adopt? How does she connect with others... Even people without computers have smart phones and Facebook! Broke people have Facebook! Students and old people have Facebook! Most likely she will have Facebook!!! If you share posts on Facebook about you wanting to adopt, people in your network can "like" or "share" it and it shows up in ALL their friends feeds!! These are people you have never ever even met now knowing of YOU and YOUR search to adopt!!!<br />
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Another point to think about it does my post say "READ ME" or does it say nothing....you want to intrigue your Facebook friends to "actually" click your post and visit your blog or Facebook page...Try NOT to post links without commenting above unless it is BEYOND self explanatory...(Ex: your itsaboutlove link and it shows that number id on the link and no comment...people who aren't LDS don't know what that is...I didn't grow up in the Church and if they have never adopted and are LDS they still may have no clue what that is...its not intriguing...it's just a next keep scrolling post) <br />
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You have to be thinking what would make them want to read this post assuming they aren't excited about adoption as much as you...if you can do that you are golden!<br />
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Here is an example of a post I posted last Saturday! It helped my page go up 20 likes just that day! <i>p.s. you can post this also in ALL groups you know that it would be appropriate for others to know so they can LIKE your page and get it into their networks! I have already had people pm me that I never met already because of this!</i><br />
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<span class="userContent">Hey all of you amazing friends!!! WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! Please help us to spread the word.. We want as many people to know we are wanting to ADOPT as possible so please PLEASE spread the word to ALL of your AMAZING networks here on FACEBOOK!<span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline;"><br /><br />You can do this by sharing this link or by going to our page and hitting "like."<br /><br />Your Love and Support means more to us than all of you all know...<br /><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith" rel="nofollow" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith</a></span></span></div>
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As far as when to post on your page or personal FB...Post at night or on Saturday mornings and Sunday Evenings...You have to be thinking when are the most people on Facebook! If you want them to share your posts you MUST post when they are on! You want them to share or like when there are lots of other people on too! <i>Yes, posting at other times it still shows up in their feeds but so does everyone else's that day ahead of you.... </i><br />
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I post a lot of stories with in my Facebook as a whole because that is what people like to see...STORIES that include a picture...they don't really care if you got an oil change or had a tuna sandwich for lunch or you are watching some tv show...(I am sure none of you do that...lol)... but you want your Facebook to really tell people who you are (not the fake you the real you) so that they WANT to help you and they want to share with their friends! You want to help others! Be inspiring! You are sowing seeds with your posts and the likes/shares are your sprouts! Don't just inundate them with adoption either...But always be thinking I am a farmer and I am planting seeds... Post LOTS of pictures...use instagram to spruce them up and ALWAYS write comments above them! Ask the reader questions...on Facebook when someone asks a question you can't say it doesn't make you want to respond! <br />
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Think NETWORKING!!! Seriously...I want you to look at your friends Facebook timelines thinking does this intrigue me, does this say they are someone people want to know or that they are lame and boring and then look at yours and say what can I do to show who I am better...<u>not change who you are</u> but to intrigue people to want to help you!<br />
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Now that we are talking about Facebook...lets talk about those you don't know...They need to be able to find you...so I would say if you are wanting more people to know about your journey to adopt that you create a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith">Facebook Page</a>. Make it inviting and fun...reflecting again who you are!!! Also it doesn't just have to have only your blog posts...have other posts that reflect your thoughts (somehow relating to adoption typically). This will allow people you don't know to like your page and have your posts show up in their feeds! Again people you don't know seeing your posts to help you spread the word!...I am not sure if you knew this but the average person knows 2000+ people by the age of 21 now many people on FB have over 2000 friends and if they choose to share your post it shows to all their friends on their timeline! BTW if you don't have timeline...no comment. <br />
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If you don't have a blog and you are wanting to adopt...you need to get one...the itsaboutlove site is not going to jump out and have people follow it...yes it is a great resource but you can't have people following your posts...updates can't be automatically updated in blog lists on other peoples blogs that way... <br />
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That brings up another thing...blogs that get updated get WAYYYYY more traffic than blogs that are another version of itsaboutlove...just saying. <br />
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Also, post lots of pictures and make sure you can read the font!!! Scripty stuff is pretty but hard to read...Ask others for feedback. All the things I said about Facebook about your page intriguing others and if they could really feel like they knew you also apply to your blog...Think "If I was a birth-mom would I feel like I knew them?"<br />
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Lastly, once you have a Facebook page you need to link it to your blog! Our adoption pass-along cards are connected to our blog which then they can connect to Facebook! We also decided that by having only our caseworker and blog on our cards there is no need to update anything else all the time...if something changes like parent profiles it doesn't matter... <br />
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P.S. please visit our<a href="http://www.facebook.com/LeapsofFaith"> Facebook page</a> and "LIKE" it!!!<br />
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