email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
When we had been approved as a hopeful adoptive couple, people would ask us about being on "the waiting list." They would ask how long it was going to take for us to be at "the top of the list." The truth is, as you know, adoption through LDSFS didn't work that way. I guess there is a "list," in the sense that you can click here and search through LDSFS profiles of hopeful couples, but because it is the birth mothers who choose who the parents of their child will be, no couple has "priority" over another.
This means that some couples will be chosen with in a matter of weeks or months of being approved, while others might be chosen after years of being approved.
Because of this, as a hopeful adoptive couple, you should not rely only on your online profile to connect you with your birth mother.
In fact, even though our birth mom was going to LDSFS for adoption counseling, she did not use their itsaboutlove.org website to search for prospective parents for Liam. For her situation, she felt she needed a personal recommendation. In fact, she met with several couples before meeting us; couples that were referred to her by people she knew.
This is where the "Wait vs. Find" mentality comes into play.
W - What If?
A - Anxious
I - Insecure
T - Tense
F - Faith
I - Inspiration
N - Networking
D - Divine Intervention
Are you Waiting or are you Finding?
Had we just waited to be connected with a birth mother only by and through our online LDSFS profile, we wouldn't have Liam.
In the world of infant adoption (where only 1% of crisis pregnancies end with an adoption) you have to be the one to get your name out there, and doing so helps the time pass more quickly.
Attend the temple, increase your scripture study and grow closer to the Spirit, start an adoption blog (and update it often), order pass along cards, send out a mass mailer, start a Facebook group, etc. Listen to the Spirit and do anything to build your support network.
Post about them on your blog!